Sunday, July 11, 2010
Secret Words - 41
We need to take the time to look below the surface of the words we consider using. It is like mining for gold or oil , the words may be explosive in a negative way & we can become rich by avoiding them.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Thursday, July 8, 2010
Words to Avoid - 40
Imagine someone shooting someone & then saying that line.
* You look nice today.
What about other days. ?
Leave out the word - today.
Words are powerful , we must watch every one of them.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Word switch - 39
If the mouth is left without control it leads to sin , thus if the Peh / mouth comes first we have pesha.
If we place shtika first , with a shin for silence & mouth control - we have Shefa.
That is why Mishlei 10:18 says
With excessive speech one cannot refrain from pesha.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Positive Words - 38
Good or not bad !
Half full or half empty. !
Kosher , not kosher or treifa.
Its not true , its a lie.
The Talmud teaches that the one who always used the positive became a great Torah sage.
Why ?
Words are decisions.
To tell someone something is not kosher is better than saying it is treif. It is more caring & less hurtful.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Words make the Difference - 37
The Ge mara teaches that it is a good idea to stay away from the second type of person.
Why ?
Words are like name labels , they also influence the person. Even the clothing we wear influences a person , the words we speak surely change us , word by word. As we use kind & gentle words , we become more like that.
A person was created in Hashems image. He also has certain animilistic tendencies in order to challenge him to grow.
Now it is true that Hashem created all , even non kosher animals & there are many lessons we learn from them , such as - be strong as a lion to fulfill the will of your Heavenly Father. But Kosher animals were permitted for food in order to provide us with energy in order to study Torah.
We need to also develop our positive Torah self - esteem by saying Hashem created this world for my benefit ! Sanhedrin 37a.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Monday, July 5, 2010
Geuss who ? Words - 36
Rebbe Akiva !
One illustration of how it transformed his life was when he met the famous Rochel who became his wife. She said to him , you have the potential to become one of the greatest Sages of the generation if you devote yourself to Torah study !
He could have said , do you realize that I have a degree in shepherding , I have a great career etc , instead he listened & changed the world.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Word Benefits -35
Silence. Avos 3:13.
There are many reasons for this & thus many benefits that are derived from it.
1- Words are so precious , they should never be wasted. They reveal who we are & form who we become. One who uses 4 words to say something that can be said in 2 is diluting ones thinking ability & weakening ones focus. Silence protects & insures our thinking.
2-The primary reason for speech control is - one who is wise , or one who desires to gain wisdom , does not speak in the presence of one who is greater. Avos 5:7.
Thus the practice of silence , even for a moment , can help us in training ourselves to be aware of Hashem which is the greatest form of WISDOM.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Sunday, July 4, 2010
Three Word Rules - 34
* Always avoid indecent Words.
* Always speak in a refined manner &
* Teach in a brief way.
By all 3 rules we say - do it always & be a person - adam.
This corresponds to the teaching in Chulin 89 a - What's is a persons primary skill in this world ?
To control ones speech.
An example in the Talmud - Eiruvin 53b. One should not say -
Which road do I take to ...
When you can say - which way to ?
2 hebrew words , instead of 4.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Words of Light - 33
But it really refers to the night of , so why do we say the opposite ?
The Talmud explains that it teaches us how important every word is.
Words influence our minds. Saying positive , cheerful words help boost a persons spirit to be more joyful & in a happier mood.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Saturday, July 3, 2010
Word Power - 32
* It is how He maintains the existence of the world - Tehilim 119:89
Our choice of words can make all the difference in our lives. Our prayers can save our lives. Effective meaningful words can help someone secure a good position of employment.
You may have heard the story of the fellow who had on his resume - maintains the morale of the entire office !
When he was asked as to what that really meant ?
He said , he would put up the coffee for them.
The Aleph Beis are the letters with which Hashem created the Heavens & the earth , Brochos 55 a.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Friday, July 2, 2010
Word illusions - 31
The Talmud teaches us that in the Aleph Beis , the letter Ayin comes before the Peh to remind us to always See the truth first , before speaking the wrong way.
One example is how the evil inclination tries to persuade us that we are phonies & frauds , while the truth is we do have challenges , but we should be sincere & try to do our best to strive to serve Hashem & improve ourselves slowly but surely.
The Torah truth is that the voice that calls you a fraud is the real fraud - a form of Loshon Hora.
Every word we say needs to be Kosher , each step is part of our growth process.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Thursday, July 1, 2010
Thinking & Speaking Words -30
But then before we speak , we are obligated to edit & sift through the material. We need to sort out what to say & what to discard without mention. We must learn to pay attention to many Torah guidelines to fine tune & polish our words so that they are sin free. The delete button has to be used again & again to comply with all of technical details that are essential.
The results will be deeply rewarding as we learn the healthy balance to produce word masterpieces.
The mouth is one of the greatest instruments that Hashem created for us & we must learn how to play it right. Our true potential is incredible & the Chofetz Chaims Sefer teaches us how to play as a true master.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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The Desire for Life - 29
The first step is
Guard your tongue
The way we speak - brings one greater life or depletes ones energy.
Every word we say is important because it develops who we become.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Loving our Days -28
* loves days
* to see good. ?
We have a goal to enjoy our days. To be excited. To focus on our purpose so that we have the right attitude. We should be inspired to want to get up in the morning for a day of service to Hashem.
This carries over to everything we do - Love your Work - Avos 1:10.
Would you not be delighted in the work you do , if you knew that Hashem is asking you to do it ?
If necessary you may need to reinvent what you do to enjoy it more.
All that you can be done for the right reasons - for the sake of Heaven.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Seeing Good - 27
- Do you live somewhere ?
- You get food to eat ?
- Etc.
Gratitude will help you feel good & great
Loshon Hora & complaining are linked to focusing on the wrong things & forgetting all the benefits.
Be grateful & thankful for all of the good Hashem provides , and Hashem will increase His benefits. When a person is happy & joyous with all that you have & also is hungry & eager to grow, that is a healthy balance.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Instead of ... Words - 26
This is some blessing from Hashem , it is for my benefit. It may be for my protection , a lesson , some form of gift or a message.
It does not pay to rant & rave or try to force a fix , rather consider , what would Hashem want me to do now ?
Say Boruch Hashem for this favor. How can this guide me in the right direction ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Saturday, June 26, 2010
Word Evaluations - 25
1- one may not say negative , even if its true information ,
2- Even to only one person , it is forbidden. If there are more listeners it is worse.
3- Even if the subject is also present it is forbidden.
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We learn how to evaluate our words - will they possibly hurt someones feelings ?
Will people feel more energized , happy , wholesome ?
The reason proper speech serves as an insurance policy for longevity is because it helps others live with energy & vitality.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Friday, June 25, 2010
Words of Prosperity - 24
We need to focus on the abundance Hashem supplies all over , His power , & generosity. His willingness to help provide for all of our needs & desires.
At each stage of our lives Hashem provides us with goodness for that time. We need to focus on realizing that Hashem is setting things up for us , He is making connections for us. As we focus properly , we will notice valuable gems coming our way that will enable us to grow.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Quiet Words - 23
That is how we uplift the world in our own quiet way.
Hashem provides us with many opportunities to discover our missions in life , we feel a demand for us to step in , a feeling of enthusiasm & a burning desire to get to work , as the Mishna says - Love your Work.
As an example , if you need to put together a team effort for a project , try asking each participant - What part of this project would you like to do most ?
Let people choose their preferences with eagerness & joy , you will make their day & they will make your week.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Thursday, June 24, 2010
Watch Your Words - 22
The Mishna teaches us the direct path to wealth - to rejoice with your portion. Contemplate , visualize & feel the riches you already possess by recognizing that you are already wealthy.
To think I need to become rich may be counterproductive.
***
This is an example of Loshon Hora when a person rejects the great wealth Hashem keeps showering upon him & makes it seem as if he has nothing.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Words of Prayer - 21
We need to refrain from using words in negative ways & instead only use them for the positive.
Hashem is close to all those who call out to Him sincerely , truthfully , as we say in Ashrei. The truth includes knowing who we are - Hashems beloved children.
We need to not only look up , but also look within ourselves to connect to Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Behind the Words - 20
It may be not to his liking because he was hoping to hear some new insights or some deep analysis or some great stories etc. But this speaker has a different style.
Thus one who demeans the speech for such reasons is lying. C. C. 2:12.
***
This is an opportunity to remind ourselves of how to prepare an ideal speech - to divide it into 1/3 halacha , 1/3 agada & 1/3 stories. Sanhedrin 38b.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Word Creations - 19
Life is what happens to us while we are choosing the right words.
Words matter.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Word Titles - 18
These 4 do not merit to come close to the Shechina in the future because they have not developed their positive communication skills.
A flatterer
Liar
Speaker of Loshon Hora
& a scoffer.
The Siman the C. C. Says is
Chashmal ,
Chanifa
Sheker ,
Mesaper L. H. &
Leitz.
We need to focus on what it takes to elevate ourselves to come close to Hashem. One great method is to follow Avos 4:1 - to honor others.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Word Games ? - 17
When someone says the wrong words , they are opting for a lie which undermines their strength. We cannot play small. We cannot act like victims.
Be what Hashem wants you to be. Be strong , wholesome , careful with the laws of proper speech , and magnificent.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Fw: EPI Networking
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Please let your subscribers know that if any knows of a job opening or a jobless candidate, they should inform EPI Networking at Martin@epinetworking.org (EPI stands for Emergency Parnasa Initiative). They have a gemach that offers up to $25,000 to any frum person who wants to open a new business (though it needs to be co-signed and the borrower would need to be bloody-detailed about how they want to spend the money).
Yaakov
Words of Feedback -16
You may offer the speaker privately suggestions on how you think he may improve his speech , for that you can get a Mitzva , but it is forbidden to share your thoughts with others.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Fw: Job Needed for my Friend
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Hi Rabbi,
I have a friend who I would recommend very highly that needs a job either in Lakewood or can travel up to 30-45 min in NJ. He’s very smart, articulate and professional and would be an excellent employee of any company.
Could you please send out his resume (attached) to our daily friends to see if anyone has any ideas or would need someone to join their company.
If anyone has any questions, please contact me at joeherskowitz@gmail.com.
Thanks so much.
Yosef Dov
Words to always Say - 15
Its good !
Why say , how bad , when its truly good !
Hashem has better options for us than we realize. He knows how to arrange ideal situations & accommodations.
Is it kindness ? Yes
Is it Hashems love for us ? Yes
He runs the world & He has our interests in mind !
Words - like this is good , can protect us from saying Loshon Hora against Hashem & missing the great truths of all the benefits Hashem keeps sending our way.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Monday, June 21, 2010
One Word - 14
Big changes usually come in small steps & stages , one word at a time. This is another insight in the Mishna Avos 1:15 - say a little & that will lead you to doing a lot.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Words behind Doors -13
The chofetz Chaim says this is forbidden even if the meeting members did not warn each other not to reveal the details of their closed session.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Sunday, June 20, 2010
Old News - words -12
Even if the information is well known that this person mis behaved when he was young , but he improved his ways. Or their is negative information about his parents , but he is not that way.
It is forbidden to reveal this type of old news even if does not add to the accurate details. Even if every one seems to know about it.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Passionate Words - 11
Oh how I love Your Torah , all day long it is my conversation.
When someone shares a Torah insight with excitement , passion & fascination , we tend to enjoy it more & get excited. We feel renewed , recharged & uplifted. The energy comes through the words to inspire us greatly.
The amount of passion a speaker shares with his words makes all the difference.
If we want to desire life , love days , to see good results , as Tehilim teaches , we need to realize that the key element is the passion we invest.
With Torah guided passion you become a dynamic , charismatic speaker of words , the way words are supposed to used as we state in the Shma.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Less Words - 10
The Chofetz Chaim 2:9 cautions against adding even one word ! Or showing in any way that you are backing some negative statement.
The closer a statement is to truth , the fewer words are needed to express it - & it may still be forbidden words.
The number of words in the 10 Commandments are 172. We learn in Pirkei Avos 1:15 to always train ourselves to say the most with the least amount of words.
You will benefit in many ways. Besides avoiding Loshon Hora , your communication will become crystal clear & your results. .
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Insignificant Words ?- 9
When the Mishna Avos 1:15 teaches the Mitzva to smile at others , it says you should Accept every person , - the way we speak to each other - can make their day & even their week !
One who acts in a rude or gruff manner can be hurting people to their core. We have the power to uplift others & ourselves by the way we use every word we say.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Friday, June 18, 2010
Unforgettable Words - 8
That Loshon Hora are any words that may cause someone harm , whether physical , financial or emotional.
He than gives an example - if one says , so & so does not know how to do his job right
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Thursday, June 17, 2010
Welcoming Words - 7
To build them up & encourage them , to find reasons to applaud & praise others , to nurture & be supportive , as we emulate Hashem who is always good to all , as we say in Ashrei.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Word Care - 6
For example can one say -
They are always eating , when his intentions are - they have a large family or they are very generous. But only if he says it before 3 people in a tone of voice that makes his positive intentions obvious.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Kind Words - 5
Words of hope & optimism , a smile , encouragement , powerful Mitzvos with words.
3 Mitzvos we can do daily -
Greet people warmly
Compliment them & praise them for their positive achievements.
Encourage them to do their best.
YOU can do it with Hashems help !
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Monday, June 14, 2010
Word Hints - 4
What if he also says the same comment about himself ?
Both are forbidden.
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Saying to remember
For every moment a person closes their mouth , they merit incredible Rewards.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Thursday, June 10, 2010
Word Pressures - 3
What if he may be fired & lose all of his income ?
What if people will call him a fool etc ?
The answers are - No , 3 times.
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Sayings to remember
# Better to be called a fool all of ones life , rather than to be considered wicked before Hashem !
# The Fence for Wisdom is keeping Quiet.
- Until you have something wise , meaningful , positive & worthwhile to say , keep your mouth closed.
- Speak little so that when you do you will make headlines.
- Speak only when you can add positive , Kosher value to the conversation.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Fw: FW: Blood clots and strokes
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Please pass on - blood clots and strokes....please read and remember!!
Blood Clots/Stroke - They Now Have a Fourth Indicator, the Tongue
I will continue to forward this every time it comes around, some things are too important not to share!
STROKE: Remember the 1st Three Letters....
S. T. R.
STROKE IDENTIFICATION:
During a BBQ, a woman stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone that she was fine (they offered to call paramedics) .she said she had just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes.
They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food. While she appeared a bit shaken up, Jane went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening
Jane's husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital -
(at 6:00 pm Jane passed away.) She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Jane would be with &nbs p;us today. Some don't die. They end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead.
It only takes a minute to read this....
A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke...totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, whic h is tough.
RECOGNIZING A STROKE
Thank God for the sense to remember the '3' steps, STR .
Read and Learn!
Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.
Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:
S *Ask the individual to SMILE.
T *Ask the person to TALK an d SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently)
( It is sunny out today.)
R *Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS.
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If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call emergency number immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.
New Sign of a Stroke -------- Stick out Your Tongue
NOTE: Another 'sign' of a stroke is this: Ask the person to 'stick' out his tongue... If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other, that is also an indication of a stroke.
A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this e-mail sends it to 10 people; you can bet that at least one life will be saved.
I have done my part.
Will you?
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Word Power - 2
Idol worship ,
Immorality &
Murder.
How ?
1- He is ignoring the fact that Hashem runs every aspect of the world.
2- he is demeaning people ,
3- he may be ruining their reputation & hurting them as if to kill them.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Words for Wealth
The Chofetz Chaim goes into great detail to help us learn the guidelines for proper speech & avoiding word failings.
The first great rule is that it is forbidden to say even one negative word about someone even if it is the actual truth.
Just as it is forbidden to lie one may not reveal negative truth.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Sunday, June 6, 2010
How to deal with Issues
Not to fight against ...
Korach could have offered Moshe Rabeinu to assist him in running the programs.
We need to focus our energies on solutions. Don't fight an issue , resolve it.
There are always challenges in life. We need to choose to be part of the solutions.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Friday, June 4, 2010
A Staff of 2800
What is the measure for measure ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Thursday, June 3, 2010
3 for 3
Torah , Avoda & Chesed.
Torah is our guide , follow its directions not the eyes.
Avoda connects with Tzitzis which is our uniform to reminds us that we are servants of
Hashem.
Chalah is an example of Chesed to always share with others.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, June 1, 2010
3 Similar
Vayishlach
Beshalach &
Shelach.
What are the similarities & what are the differences ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Sunday, May 30, 2010
3 of 613
A Siman can be made with the 3 lettters of the word Shlach
Shin - Shmiras Einayim - not to stray after ones heart & eyes.
Lamed - Ltzitzis - to wear fringes to remind ourselves that we are Hashems elite servants.
Cheis - To seperat Chalah from dough.
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Fw: Now You Cry?
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Within a few hours, two people came up to me with the same story. Actually, they were entirely different cases, totally different details, but the story is the same.
I put tefillin on a man from England. I did not think that he was Jewish. I had to ask him twice. After finishing with the tefillin, he said that he had an urgent mission. He reached into his wallet and pulled out a small note.
“This is from my father,” he said. “My father is very religious. He goes to synagogue every day. He wants very badly to put this note in the Kotel. He wants G-d to help him with this. This is very important to him.”
“So, go put it between the stones.” I told him.
He wanted me to understand how important the note was. “My father has a great problem. It’s his daughter…He hasn’t spoken to her in over a year….”
“What’s the problem?” I asked. “Is she with a non-Jewish guy?”
“A Muslim,” he answered, meaning that it was even worse. “This is so important to my father.” He insisted again. “My father is so upset. Please put the note in the Wall.”
I asked if his father raised his daughter with her knowing that she had to marry only a Jew.”
“He ignored her, mostly,” he answered. Then he quickly added, “But this is so important to him.”
I told him to go put the note between the stones, tell G-d the problem, and pray that He will help. But I added, “The time to take care of these problems is before they happen, not after they are living together.”
The second case was that of a friend of mine who lives here in the Old City. His brother just passed away, and his wife and children are about to bury him in a non-Jewish cemetery! His mother is fighting this with all her might, and my friend and his wife just flew back to the States to try to make sure that he receives a Jewish burial. There is going to be a Judge’s decision on the matter.
What’s the story? The man was married to a non-Jewish woman, and had non-Jewish children with her. Well, unless there is a huge miracle, and please G-d there will be, surely, the judge is going to side with his non-Jewish family.
The question we have to ask is, why does the family wait until it is too late before they get excited enough to try to heal these situations?
I am sharing these stories with you so that you will take the proper steps before it is too late. First off, for yourself, decide that you want to have a Jewish family. Surely, you also want your children to have Jewish families, after all, their children are your family, too. Do you love your brothers, sisters, and other close relatives? Then you have to help them, too. And, even beyond your family, you should also try to influence your friends and acquaintances. Remember, the time to try to help is not after it happens.
Teach your children that it is important to you to keep your family Jewish, and that can only happen if they marry Jews. You cannot spring this information on them after they start dating non-Jews.
It is a lot easier to keep the glass from breaking, than to pick up those sharp, broken pieces after it falls.
(This link is to my short videos. Send, “Jews Should Marry Jews” to anyone you feel is in danger of intermarrying.)

Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Thank Hashem for Light
Did you hear about the new light bulb invention that produces light for Sight , warmth & food to fill up the food pantry ?
It was directly produced & is maintained by the Creator who makes it seem natural.
Enjoy !
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Fw: 13 principles of faith
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Sunday, May 23, 2010
A Second Chance
There are 4 Mitzvos linked to this
* bring it
* with Matza & Moror
* not to leave over
* not to break the bones.
We learn how to merit Hashems help when we strive to serve Him with our full commitment.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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Monday, May 17, 2010
Honoring Parents
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Sunday, May 16, 2010
Most Important
To study verse 24/7 in Sefer Shemos which happens to be our purpose in life to serve Hashem 24/7 with Naaseh Venishma.
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Friday, May 14, 2010
Fw: Publicize Volunteer Job Opening, Please
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There's a website called GuardYourEyes.org that tries to encourage shmiras ainayim, prevent pornographic viewing online, and treat people addicted to pornography. They try to push the male public to have an Internet filter and to not know the password to the filter (which can be used to change the settings on the filter to watch inappropriate material). They recommend people typing a password impossible to remember and to send it to a "filter gabai" who will remember the password for them. (The purpose of the password is to allow kosher, blocked websites to be accessed; no filter is perfect.) They currently need a volunteer for this service. Please note that many of the people who'd be requesting this service from them are pornography addicts who may consider getting rid of the filter because of the major inconvenience associated with the filter. (Note: When they talk of requiring a 30-day sobriety, they mean of watching porn and acting out.) Here's their ad:
Looking for an Assistant Filter Gabai
We are looking for an Assistant Filter Gabai to help with saving people's passwords for them, make remote changes (using remote accessing software, such as TeamViewer and ShowMyPC), and offer people filtering advice... If you are interested in being trained into the job, please be in contact with either me at eyes.guard@gmail.com or the filter Gabai at filter.gye@gmail.com.
This is a tremendous chesed for people, and one day (when we have more funds) we plan on expanding this service by offering a 24 hour hot-line for advice and help with filters, both in Israel and the U.S. (Who knows? If you start now, you might one day get a paid job to do this).
To qualify for this volunteer job, we need someone computer savvy, with some knowledge of filters, and with a mobile-device that gets e-mails (so he can respond to urgent requests). Also, you should be married and sober for at least 30 days (preferably 90 days).
Thank you!
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Fw: A Moment with Rabbi Avigdor Miller Z"L # 35(Dressing in Black, Why?)
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And so, when you dress in a dignified way, you become dignified. And that's why it's always important for men and women to remember, dignity in clothing. I was walking on Kings Highway, and from a distance I saw a woman approaching. Now everybody on Kings Highway is naked, it's a naked street. I thought it was a Rebbetzin coming. So I saw she was wearing a Sheitel , a well styled Sheitel, and a nice long dress, nice sleeves. But when she came close, everything was all right except one thing, she was black. I was thinking, this black woman, is Mechayev (obligates) all the Jewish women. Because now Hakadosh Baruch Hu says, if she dresses decently, you the children of the Chosen People, what's going to happen to you. She is Mechayev them. We have to learn how important it is to be dignified in dress. That's what Hakadosh Baruch Hu wants at all times. And that's going to change a man's inner behavior, his mind is attuned to his externality. Good Shabbos To All |
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Wednesday, May 12, 2010
3 Basic Foundations
To believe in Hashem
To believe that He gave us His Torah from Heaven
To believe that He provides rewards & / punishments.
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Tuesday, May 11, 2010
True Success
Humility & constant Torah Study.
Sanhedrin 88b
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Sunday, May 9, 2010
Thanking our Parents
This teaches us how thankful we need to be always to our Parents who helped to give us life !
And we should not be waiting for Mothers day to express our heartfelt gratitude to our dear , beloved Parents.
May Hashem bless them always with good health , wealth , & nachas from all of us.
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Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Linked Together
* may not wear Tefilin on the first day of mourning &
* he may not eat of his own food , others need to bring food.
What is the connection ?
Perhaps it is due to the concept - if there is no Torah , there is no food.
Since he may not wear Tefilin the crown which also represents Torah & he may not study regular Torah , thus he is also limited in using his own food.
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Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Choosing
Rambam 14:7 - says comforting is first because it is a kindness to the living and the departed one.
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Monday, May 3, 2010
Five Rules
No haircuts -
No wearing new or like new clothing.
Not to get married
Not to attend parties
& No business trips
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Eleven Rules
No haircuts
No laundry
No bathing or using lotions
No marital relations
No leather shoes
No work
To limit Torah study
Turn down beds - which does not apply now
Wrap the head - which does not apply
Greetings of peace.
Rambam 5:1.
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Sunday, May 2, 2010
A Speaking Lesson
For sure he may not speak excessively or joke around !
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Friday, April 30, 2010
Power of Speech
It concludes with an episode of someone who is put to death for sinning with words.
Thus we learn the power of speech. The fence for Wisdom is - SPEECH.
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Thursday, April 29, 2010
7 Gifts to a Spouse
Love
Share finances
Not to impose fear
Speak Gently
Avoid sadness
No Anger
- Rambam , Laws of Marriage 15:19
We may find it useful to post this note where we can review it 3 times a day.
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Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Fw: Happy Pesach Sheini
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Good morning Rabbi Goldberger. How refreshing it is to receive your messages throughout the week! They add balance to the day that is always filled with uncertainties and opportunities. Your messages help me to maintain equilibrium between worlds and to focus on the emes. The result is the harmony needed for growth.
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Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Why 3 times ?
This reminds us of the secret revealed in Pirkei Avos - the " he used to say " system.
We need to select the right phrases & say them again & again all the time !
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Monday, April 26, 2010
Fw: Great Miracle of the Volcano Shutdown -WOW
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From: mordb@msn.com
Subject: FW: Great Miracle of the Volcano Shutdown -WOW
Date: Mon, 26 Apr 2010 12:04:31 -0400
The story begins with a young Yeshiva student, an 18 year old Yerushalmi, that came down with a fulminate hepatic failure and was mortally ill.
With little hope of receiving a liver transplant in Israel, Rav Firer sought to send the boy emergency to Brussels, the world center of liver transplants. The only problem however, is that Brussels under no circumstances transplants non-EU patients in order to save the scanty supply of livers for Europeans. Nevertheless, it was decided to send him to Brussels despite the full knowledge of negli gible chance of receiving a liver.
The young Yeshiva student had no choice but to include his name to the long waiting list for a liver transplant. In the meantime, he tried to maintain his learning despite the illness, consciously aware that it will takes weeks, months, and even years till he will be able to be given a new liver. Many patients were on the waiting list, and his name was somewhere on the bottom... And when his turn does finally arrive, it must completely match his blood type and other medical criteria. If it's not a perfect match, he will need to continue waiting ... for a miracle.
However, רבות מחשבות בלב איש ועצת ה' היא תקום Many thoughts in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of HaShem shall stand. HaShem had a different plan for this young Yeshiva student and HaShem's loyal servants produced avalanches of hot ash, rock and gas on Europe, causing Euro pe to completely shut down its skies into a no-fly zone. No one can leave and no one can enter; a self-imposed siege in the euro zone skies. It is during this time that a young religious Yerushalmi man in the capital of Belgium is sitting in the yeshiva learning Torah.
During the course of the shut down airspace above Europe, a person dies in the hospital in the capital of Belgium, a person whom agreed to donate his liver to anyone that might need it. Astonishingly, a liver that is perfectly parametric for our young Yeshiva student.
Health authority of Belgium began searching the liver transplant waiting list but 'unfortunately', not even one patient was able to fly into Belgium for the very needed healthy liver transplant due to a volcanic eruption in Iceland.
As they advanced further on the waiting list, they reached the young Yeshiva student. However it was not offered to the boy due to his lack of citizenship. As the clock closed in on t he deadline for time in which the the liver's lifespan for transplanting, the precious healthy liver cannot be wasted and must be swiftly replaced with a diseased liver, no one else was able to arrive in Belgium for the transplant except this young Yerushalmi.
With the clear Divine Intervention, this budding talmid chacham received the liver and is now recovering from surgery.
The enormity of this miracle was even greater after the successful liver transplant. The doctors said that the young yeshiva student's liver was very deteriorated and diseased and it was a matter of days his liver would stop functioning completely. The doctors unanimously believe that if this young man had to continue waiting for the liver transplant, he would have been long dead.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
The Second Largest
Ki Seitzai has 74
Emor has 63 the second largest amount.
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Wednesday, April 21, 2010
The Greatest Mitzva - question
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Monday, April 19, 2010
Fw: Rabbi Goldberger's booklet: How to Become Fortunate
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Sunday, April 18, 2010
28 & 51 of 613
Kedoshim has 51.
The first 4 deal with serving at the Beis Hamigdosh - may we merit to have it rebuilt speedily in our days.
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Thursday, April 15, 2010
Speech Improvement
Avoid wicked speech !
What is that ?
Leitzonus & Loshon Hora
Ridicule & gossip.
The key to life is
Gaurd your tongue.
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Wednesday, April 14, 2010
7 Basic Laws
# Not to worship idols
# To honor Hashems name
#. Not to murder
# not to commit immoral acts
# not to steal
#. To maintain & uphold law & order
# Not to eat portions of live creatures.
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Monday, April 12, 2010
Fw: Good Job!
If you would like a copy of the book please send us your address.
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I am writing to express my gratitude to you for taking the time and effort to write Good Job: Successful Strategies for Devoping Your Work Potential.
Not only is it wonderful to see an explication of the various Pirkei Avoth that are so often quoted, and reviewed during the summer months, but also to have a practical discussion of those many Avoth that can be applied to work.
I have already personally gained a great deal from reading the book, but will also suggest that it be shared with the organizations that help Jews to find jobs (OU [NYC], Agudah PCS [Brooklyn & Lakewood], Project Chizuk [Passaic], Jewish Vocational Service [East Orange, NJ])
At one time many of the practical issues you address were a part of both Jewish and American corporate culture. B'EH, we should all incorporate the values and attitudes you explain so clearly and be moved to learn the practical halakhoth which apply from Seder Nezikin.
Respectfully,
Jonah G. Sinowitz
Passaic, NJ
7 & 11 of the 613
* 3 relating to childbirth
- The new mother has to stay apart from her husband for awhile.
- She needs to refrain from certain Holy foods.
- She needs to bring certain offerings.
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Sunday, April 11, 2010
4 Greatest Gifts
Hint - 2 are in this weeks Parsha.
The Talmud , Nedorim 64b , says 4 are considered as dead - a poor person , leper , blind or one without children.
Tosfos explains we always need to pray to Hashem that we should not suffer from any of these.
We also need to keep thanking Hashem for all of His favors.
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Thursday, April 8, 2010
Question
Tosfos Sanhedrin 56b says yes but only if the animal died by itself.
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17 of 613
4 on how to behave in the Holy Temple.
10 Kosher food laws
3 laws of Tumah
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Wednesday, April 7, 2010
The Day After
Mitzrayim means Egypt but it also means narrow confinement. Hashem keeps on saving us from all types of challenges.
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Friday, April 2, 2010
Fw: URGENT FOR TODAY
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-----Original Message-----
From: Hakhel MIS <hakhelusa@gmail.com>
Date: Fri, 2 Apr 2010 14:42:08
To: <hakhel@hakhel.info>
Subject: URGENT FOR TODAY
B"H
The Rubashkin-Pesach petition you signed last week is not being used per the recommendation of community leaders, but they ask you to please sign this new petition ASAP, and to ask at least 10 contacts to sign!
It's urgent that you sign the NEW PETITION available at www.justiceforsholom.org
even if you already signed the Pesach petition!
It's critical that we have 50,000 signatures by Sunday - so that we can take the campaign to the press IY"H. Please get 10 friends to sign the petition! Don't rely on someone else...response has been poor...please take a minute now and do it.
Please also voice your concern by sending an email to Department of Justice:
oipl@usdoj.gov and copy pr@justiceforsholom.org
Check below to find a message you can forward to friends.
Time is of essence! The Prosecutor has to make their recommendation for sentencing on April 9th. It's imperative they know that Americans nationwide are deeply disturbed. Please act Now!!!! Thank you!
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To all friends and constituents of Agudath Israel:
We have been working closely with Sholom Mordechai Rubashkin's lawyers and other organizations and askonim concerned about his incarceration and his upcoming sentencing, currently scheduled for April 28. This tragic case is at a critical juncture right now, and demands our attention and action even as we are all busy with Pesach.
In issuing this call to our friends and constituents, we are in no way condoning any criminal conduct. However, as detailed in the memo available at http://tinyurl.com/yj372kj prepared by a lawyer familiar with the case, it is clear that the federal government has been overly zealous in pursuing Mr. Rubashkin and has submitted him to considerably more severe restrictions and potential punishment than others in similar cases. The memo is quite an eye-opener, well worth reading despite its length.
The bottom line is that Mr. Rubashkin is being kept in jail pending sentencing, and is not even being allowed to go home for the Pesach sedorim next week, despite his willingness to post a large bond and hire a full-time guard. With respect to the sentencing, he faces the possibility of a very lengthy sentence - upward of 20 years, Rch'l - far beyond the sentences imposed on others whose crimes were significantly more severe than anything Mr. Rubashkin may have done.
We are therefore asking you, our friends and constituents, to take a few minutes during this zman cheiruseinu to communicate your respectful concern over the handling of the Rubashkin case, his incarceration pending sentencing, and the excessive sentence being considered.
Please make your concerns known to the Justice Department's Office of Intergovernmental and Public Liaison at 202-514-3465 or oipl@usdoj.gov . Also, if you are able, please sign the online petition available at www.justiceforsholom.org ; this petition will be forwarded to the U.S. Attorney's office in Iowa, which is prosecuting the Rubashkin case. We are hopeful that this expression of public support will have a positive impact on the case.
Many thanks. Best wishes for a chag kasher v'someiach. May we share besoros tovos.
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Thursday, April 1, 2010
Unique Holy Days
The Mishna Avos 3:11 lists 5 entities that ensure ones eternal rewards in the World to Come.
On of the the 5 are to honor & sanctify these special days.
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Friday, March 26, 2010
All of the Offerings
By developing true humility.
Sanhedrin 43b
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Thursday, March 25, 2010
Shabos Connection
Tosfos in Pesochim 117b explains that in Mitzrayim the Jews had to work at hard labor in all 39 categories of Melacha on Shabos.
Thus we celebrate every Shabos to be free from it.
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Wednesday, March 24, 2010
8 Mitzvos
- To discard our Chometz before
- Not to eat Chometz the afternoon before the holiday
- Not to eat any all 8 days
- Not to eat a mix that contains some of it
- Not to see any of it in your property.
- Not to find any of it
- To eat Matzo Pesach nite
- To tell the Story.
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Tuesday, March 23, 2010
New Booklet
10 Benefits
Of Giving
A Tenth
If you would like a copy , please e mail us your address
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Sunday, March 21, 2010
18 of 613
The first 3 are for caring for the Mizbeach
* Clean off some ashes every morning
* Put new wood on daily
* Never extinguish any of the fire.
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Friday, March 19, 2010
Greatest Korban
The daily Tamid offerings.
See Rashi Sanhedrin 36a
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Thursday, March 18, 2010
2 Dangers
Do not bring any leaven or any honey
What do these represent ?
Avoid arrogance & avoid the desires that can lead one to stray from serving Hashem.
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Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Matza all year round
All of the Mincha flour offerings at the Beis Hamigdosh and the Lechem haponim were all Matza. Thus Kohanim had them all year round.
We are on that level Pesach time.
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Always Speak Positive
Pesochim begins with the Light of the fourteenth - and the obvious question is its really the night ?
We learn to always speak in positive ways.
Say Good Morning even at night.
Say have a great day.
Don't open up your for the Satan , the Talmud teaches.
Al tiftach peh lsatan.
Thanks to Joseph Benjamin for this insight , may it be a merit for his success in all of his endeavors.
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Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Candle at a Bris Milah
Tosfos Sanhedrin 32b.
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Monday, March 15, 2010
Question
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Sunday, March 14, 2010
16 of 613
The first is how to bring a Korban Olah - which goes up completely on the fire for Hashem.
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Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Fw: חיוך מהשמים A Sm ile From Heaven
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From: mordb@msn.com
Subject: FW: חיוך מהשמים A Smile From Heaven
Date: Tue, 9 Mar 2010 18:54:20 -0500
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Monday, March 8, 2010
6 Days of Work
Work will be done - is explained because Hashem runs the world.
We have to realize that it is all up to Him. We need to do some efforts with the realization that we cannot accomplish anything without His constant input.
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Sunday, March 7, 2010
Mitzva 114
Beis Din may not put someone to death on Shabos.
This is part of the Kovod / honor for this great day that everyone should rest.
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