S 74 - Marriage 9

Don't speak ...
This includes a general admonition to watch your words.
The fence for Wisdom is
Silence ! Avos 3:15
The best way to communicate is by lending a hand , not by mere talk.
Say less & do more - Avos 1:15
Show that you care by helping out. Help set the table , clean up , do the dishes , the shopping etc.

Nothing is better for the body than Silence , Avos 1:17.
This means you will be healthier & have less stress & have a better marriage.
Overeating & overspeaking are both harmful - One who gaurds his mouth & tounge will be protected from many troubles , Mishlei
When you talk too much you say silly things & you ruin your image in the eyes of your spouse.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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