Step 2 of M
There is no option. Resolve today that you are committed to do whatever it takes to make your marriage truly excellent.
Of course you need ongoing prayer for Hashems help , but you also need to buckle down to self - midos - control.
The rule to remember - your life gets better , when you get better.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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