Forms of Murder
Avoid mean words at all costs. Always use kind words. Compliments not complaints.
Life & death are in the hands of a gun? No. There is something worse - the Tongue. Mishlei 18.
Every day , the words you say to your spouse make a great difference in how they feel all day long. If you say , you look good today & you smile (: you are gaining a super mitzva besides fulfilling your obligation in marriage maintenance.
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