On the path one is determned to go - guides us to hold on to our positive goals , to clarify & pinpoint what we want so that we invoke a full measure of Hashems assisstance.
One example of how far this goes is the Talmudic story of a person who suffered a tragic loss. After the time of mourning was over the person kept on extending the process. Finally the Rav told the person to stop or else. The story has a sad ending but the lesson is very powerful.
We can change our lives by changing the way we think.
One who keeps on complaining may find more & more reasons to do do !
Focus on what you want & pray to Hashem for it. He is in charge & it is up to Him but He wants your input.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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