We need to listen well to the gentle nudge so that we can be spared from having to deal with a rude awakening. Every word has a purpose.
Should we get angry at the messenger ?
Not much. When we realize that it was sent by Hashem who has tons of messengers at His disposal , we will relax a bit.
Instead , we should consider thanking & appreciating a critic who may be one of your best teachers.
If its true , correct it ,
If not , forget it.
But either way , Hashem is sending you a caring , loving message - we are in this world to grow , keep on improving & coming closer to Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
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