Saturday, October 23, 2010

Developing Love to a Spouse

This message is a response to a number of you who have asked that we address this topic.

See Breishis 24:67

When does it say that Yitzchok loved his wife Rivka

Love is a verb.
The feeling can be develop when you focus & strive to make it happen.
By serving , listening , sacrificing , appreciating ...
It is our responsibility to develop the feeling. It comes through loving actions. It can be regenerated & made to last.
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Friday, October 22, 2010

How to Negotiate

When Avraham tries to save Sedom he pleads what if there are 50 righteous
45 ?
40 ?
30?
20?
10
?
Why didn't Hashem say right away , don't worry there are NO tzadikim there ?
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Thursday, October 21, 2010

Silence

Some say it is like gold
We say - it is priceless
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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Rain Gifts

The difference between a sunny day & a rainy one is that on a rainy day we are required to focus on the great benefits we gain from the rain.
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Monday, October 18, 2010

The Difference

What is the difference between
Silence is the fence for wisdom

And
A righteous person says little & does a lot ??
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Sunday, October 17, 2010

Better than

What's better than smiling ?

Getting others to smile.

That way your smile will last much longer. :)
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Thursday, October 14, 2010

One Person

Which one person in history is called the pillar of the world by the Rambam ?


Avraham Avinu.
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Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Yes

We can choose to rejoice because Hashem put Roses on bushes that also have thorns
Or we can complain about the thorns.

We can also rejoice more by realizing that the thorns serve to preserve & protect the beautiful roses.
Boruch Hashem.
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Sunday, October 10, 2010

3 Goals

Our 3 greatest goals are
Torah Study
Avoda - Service
& Kindness

Our 3 primary teachers
Avraham , Yitzchok & Yaakov
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Friday, October 8, 2010

Key Factor

What was the key reason that Noach gained Hashems favor ?

Mishlei explains - the humble gain favor
3:34.
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Thursday, October 7, 2010

3 Messages

What lessons was Noach teaching his children & the world by naming them
Sheim
Chom &
Yefes ?

3 great fundamentals for serving Hashem.
1- shom means to be there. To apply oneself wholeheartedly to the mitzva at hand.

2- Chom means to warm up to do it with enthusiasm.

3- & add beauty to show that we care.
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Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Food for Thought

Our Sages say - On the path one is determined to go , Hashem will lead him.

What if someone claims -
Life is not working out the way he wants it to ... ???

He may be lying.
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Monday, October 4, 2010

Finding Favor

How can we be like Noach to find favor in Hashems eyes ?
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Monday, September 27, 2010

Where does

It say that we should be joyous all year round ?


Mishlei 15 : 15


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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

What to Say

You chose us
You loved us

You desire us
You have elevated us above all of the languages
You have sanctified us
You have brought us close
You have called us by Your name

What does all of this mean ?
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Sunday, September 19, 2010

Fw: What Should Our Intention Be?

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From: Gutman Locks <gutman1@013.net>
Date: Sun, 19 Sep 2010 06:37:22 +0200
To: Gutman Locks<gutman1@013.net>
Subject: What Should Our Intention Be?

 

What Should Our Intention Be?

 

    The Holiday of Succos is this week. This holiday has two unique commandments: We are to dwell in a sukkah (a hut), and we are to take the “four species” (the citron [esrog], date palm branch, myrtle, and willow branches).

 

    We take the four species, and our custom is to shake, or wave them in all directions. What should we think about when we do this most unusual mitzvah?  The Rabbis tell us one possible meaning: These four species of plants represent Jews in four stages of service to Hashem, and we are bringing them together from all directions. Nice idea, but is this what are we supposed to be thinking about when we do this mitzvah?

 

     Judging from the very serious looks that I see on the faces of many religious Jews when they perform this mitzvah, I assume that their intention is to serve G-d. And when they serve G-d, they concentrate their minds on the intense seriousness of the moment.

 

     But what does G-d say that we should do when we take these four species? The Torah clearly tells us that we should take these four and “…you shall rejoice before Hashem.…”[i] If you take them and shake them without joy, you did not do the mitzvah as it is commanded. You have to be happy.

 

     We are commanded by the Creator of the Universe to rejoice at this time. Is there any better reason then this to be happy?

 



[i] Leviticus 23:40

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Choices

A person can choose to be right or to be flexible & forgiving --
& gain Hashems forgiveness & go on to succeed in all areas of life !
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Great Mitzva

On which day do we have a great Mitzva to eat ?

See Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 604. & see the first Mishna Berura.

Its the day before Yom Kipur.


[ We can keep in mind the word Great
Has EAT in it. ]
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Monday, September 13, 2010

3 Stages of Teshuva

How do we divide the process of Repentance into 3 stages in our daily prayers ?

We ask Hashem to bring us back to His Torah
Than to His Avoda & than
To complete Teshuva.

How do we accomplish these great goals ?
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Sunday, September 12, 2010

The Definition

Of Teshuva - repentance is
The retroactive free-will decision to change ones past. Rav A. Miller
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