Rule for Gift Giving

A person should never give one child an extra gift over the other children because it may cause fights.
Where is this lesson found in Parshas Vayeshev ?

See Shabos 10b 12 lines up & Rambam Naachlos 6:13
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

How to Respond

How should a person respond to a request of a Parent ?

When Yaakov asked his son Yoseif to run an errand , his response was one word - hineini.
Why did he say that & what are the 2 meanings Rashi points out in 37:13. ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Key to Success

Yoseifs master saw that Hashem was with him.
39 :3

What did the non Jew see ?

See Rashi.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Daf Slogan

Kesubos 83b
9 lines down

A small vegetable today is better than a promise of a larger one for tommorrow !

Accept it NOW
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

100 times Thanks

How many times daily are we obligated to Thank Hashem ?

See Minachos 43b 5 lines up from bottom
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva to Care

Why did Yaakov remain alone ?
The Talmud Chulin 91a , 3 lines up , says that he went to retrieve some small containers. This teaches us to be careful not to lose or waste our things because we have to keep our distance from theft.
What does this mean ?
See Ben Yehoyada
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Where to keep your Money

The Medrash says that we learn from verse 32: 9 that a person should not keep all of his money in one place.

How do we see it ?
Does this mean also not to keep it in one Basket ? Yes
What about in one wallet , purse or in one pocket ?
See Bava Metzia 42 a
11 lines down.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

The Super Zone

Yaakov sent a message that
Garti - which Rashi in his second Pshat explains to mean , I fulfilled the Taryag Mitzvos.
But why is the word Garti used ?
Why not just say I have kept the Mitzvos ?

Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Great Name lessons

Each of the children of Yaakov is named with a name that carries many great lessons we need to learn & remember.

Reuven - Hashem is always watching us

Shimon - He also hears every word we say

Leivi - He is close to us

Yehuda - we need to always Thank Him

Dan - Hashem always Judges us based on how we behave.

We need to be prepared to stand in Judgement

Naftoli - We need to be stubborn to do what's right & to pray for Hashems help

Gad- good fortune - we keep on receiving great !enefits from Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

3 Basics

Gaze at 3 things & you will be able to protect yourself from sin -

* An Eye is Watching you

* An Ear is Listening

* & all your deeds are being Recorded.
Avos 2:1

How do these 3 principles correspond to the names of the first 3 Shevotim in this weeks Parsha ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzvah from all 3

Which Mitzva was started by & taught by each of the 3 Avos ?

See Rambam ,Melochim 9:1
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

The Incredible Secret to Super Wealth

The secret is not just work hard , Rambam explains -
Work with all of your power ! As we learn from Yaakov Avinu hatzadik.
Why is this the Super Key ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

One Stretch- Riddle

Why are there no pauses throughout Parshas Vayeitzei ?

See the first Baal Haturim
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

3 Ways to Grow

Rashi ,30:8 - explains the name Naftoli in 3 ways
* to connect

* to persist with stubborness

* to Pray
What is the link between these 3 interpetations ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Worse than Murder

What could be worse ?

Shaming someone in public.

In what sense is it worse ?
That the person can lose his portion of Olam Habo !
How can we understand the concept of this idea ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

The salt / wealth connection

Why did Eisov ask his father , how does one give Maaser from salt ?
The daf Kesubos 66b , 10 lines up , teaches us how to "salt" ones wealth so that it endures -
*keep on giving to Charity that is the the secret to preserving money.
Why is salt used as the metaphor ??
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Answer

One of the reasons for the names of the Avos -

1 - Avraham - Father of nations he lived for Chesed thus giving life & insight to all.

2- Yitzchok - Father of service taught how to serve Hashem with Joy.

3 - Yaakov - Father of Torah
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Seeing the Humor

Why is Yitzchoks name the word for Laughter ? ( Why is that such a meaningful Jewish name for one of the greatest Jews in History ?)

No kidding
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

The need for Prayer

Why did Hashem arrange it that the Avos had difficulties with having children ?

The Talmud Yevomos 64 a ,5 lines up , explains because Hashem wanted them to pray.

What does that mean ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Five Crimes

The Talmud , Bava Basra 16b , 12 lines up , says that Eisov transgressed 5 sins on that day.

- a form of immorality
- Murder
- to deny the Essential Truth
- to deny Techiyas hameisim
- & to shame the privilege of the firstborn
Which of these does the Torah mention openly ?
Which is the worst & why ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Themes - Toldos

- People need to pray to merit having Children
-The difference - Yaakov would sit & study Torah

- A Mitzva to live in the right place
- Peace treaty
- Blessing ones Children
- Tasty food leads to heartfelt Blessings
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Code 52

Hashem blessed Avraham with everything , 24:1.
Rashi says the Gimatriah of bakol is a son - 52.
But why dosent the Torah just say that he was granted a son ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Speak First

Why did Eliezer insist
I will not eat until I speak first , 24:33. ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Good Years

What does Rashi mean that all of Sarahs life was equally good , weren't there some years of suffering ?

See 23:1
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Housekeeping

What are the 7 household chores that were customarily performed by Women ?

See Mishna , Mesechta Kesubos 59b.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Best Test

What is the best type of Shidduch test and why ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Themes for Parshas Chayei Sarah

1- Count Your days to utilize them all properly
2- preparing & buying a place for Burial
3- Finding a Shiduch
4- Learning even from the servants of the Avos
5- Avraham has more children
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Themes of Parshas Vayera

1- Helping Visitors

2 - Praying for Others

3 - Destruction of the Wicked

4- Dealing with Challenges to a Spouse

5- Challenges in Raising Children

6 - Negotiating a Peace Treaty

7- The Greatest Test - Akeida

* these are 7 Mitzva themes we learn about this week.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

When to Run

Where do we see that one should rush to catch a customer & then rush again to serve them ?
& how can we apply this lesson in our daily lives ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

3 Tongue Questions

Why are all the other organs of the body in an upright posture but the tongue is in a laying position ?
Many organs are on the outside but this is in the mouth ?
Why are there 2 barriers surrounding the tongue ?

These 3 questions are all in the Talmud Erchin 15b , 8 lines down.
One answer for all...
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Thought Question

What would we hope to be doing at the moment Hashem might stop by to visit us ?

See 18:1
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Hidden Agenda

What might be Avraham Avinu s hidden reason for why he gave every geust the tastiest cut of tongue meat ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Choosing a Menu

If you have all the choices possible , what is the best type of meat you should serve your geusts ??
See Rashi 18:7
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Quiz Question

Who was the first convert to Judaism in History ?

See Chagiga 3a , 17 lines up from the bottom. & the Tosfos.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Giving a Tenth

Who was the first in history to give Maaser , a tenth to charity ?
Rambam- it was Yitzchok
Raavad - no , it was Avraham

What is the meaning of this dispute ?
See Rambam , Melochim ch. 9:1 & the Kesef Mishna.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Tests & Miracles

What is the link between a test & a miracle ?
Why is the same hebrew word Nes , a miracle & nisoyon , a test ?
We also have the same rootword for
To flee - Nos
Because we should try to avoid tests & we should not rely on miracles.
??
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Challenges , large & small

* The Torah says once by the Akeida that Hashem was testing Avraham.

* The Mishna , Avos ch. 5 , says that Hashem tested Avraham 10 times.

* The Sefer Mesilas Yeshorim says that every thing in this world is a test.

How do we reconcile these 3 sources ???
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Going Places

Why does Hashem instruct Avraham to go away from his land , why couldn't he become greater where he was ?

See Avos 4:14 the Mishna which begins - Rebbi Nehorai said ...
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

3 types of Vision

What are the 3 reasons why Sarah was called Yiskoh & how are they linked together ?

See Rashi 11:29
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Speech Lessons

What is better to say
Not good
Or
Bad ?

The answer can be derived from Parshas Noach 7:8 as we learn in
Pesochim 3a , 12 lines up from the bottom.
See also Divrei Hayomim 1:9:20
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mazel Tov

If you are in the area this evening please join us for a Lchaim
Engagement of our son
Kalman to
Bracha Finklestein
At Keser hall
4712 12 av
Bklyn N. Y.
Between about 8- 10. Pm.
May we always share Simchos together & rejoice with Hashem ...
Moshe & Chana Beila Goldberger
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Always with Love

How can Beis Din put someone to death in a loving manner ?

See Kesubos 37b
16 lines up from the bottom.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Finding Favor

What is the secret by which we can find favor in Hashem s eyes ?

Noach found favor.
Noach means to be restful. He had the menuchas hanefesh , peace of mind by trusting in Hashem. When we trust Him , He will care for us.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Finding Favor

What is the hint from Noach s name that he would merit to find favor in Hashems eyes ?

Hint - study the 2 letters of his name from all angles.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Looking Ahead

What was the name of Avraham Avinu s mother & what did she have in common with haman s mother ?

See Bava Basra 91a , 8 lines up from the bottom & please tell us the lesson you learn.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count & Parsha Summary- Breshis

* How Hashem created the world in 6 days & then rested on the Seventh.
# How Hashem created the first Man & Woman
* The first 2 children Kayin & Hevel
* the First Mitzva to have children.
# The first 10 generations in history.
- Noach & his family.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Thoughts of Joy - Chag Someach

One of the lessons from the 4 species
Why are they all different ?

One is tall & thin , the other is shaped like a lemon.
One has leaves shaped like eyes the other is shaped like lips ?
The lesson is each person is also unique. Learn to develop your own potential to serve Hashem with the abilities He implanted in you & then you will be truly happy.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Sleeping in the Sukka

Its brought down that one should not eat much before Sukos in the afternoon, so that you should have a good apetite for the Mitzva at nite.
What about regarding sleep.?
Should we say , don't nap before Yomtov so that you will sleep better in the Sukka ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

How is it ?

Is it possible to be eating in a kosher Suka on Yomtov
& yet the person is considered doing an issur & it is as if he is not eating in a suka ?

See Rambam Hilchos Suka 6:8
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Food for Thought

This Yom Tov of Sukkos corresponds to the Clouds of Glory Hashem provided for us for 40 years in history.
Why do we have a holiday for this glorious miracle but not also to remember the miracle mann food & the miracle rolling stone , water supply ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Time to Move

Why is the concept that defines the difference between our homes & the Sukah ?

See one line in Mesechtas Sukah daf 2 a , 10 lines up from the bottom.

Clue - our home is defined by a 3 letter word ,
Our Sukah is defined by a 4 letter word.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Guard your Mouth

There are 2 principles -
A - never mention a possibility of something going wrong for someone
Because Hashem may cause your words to come true.
Kesubos 23a
B- don't open your mouth for the satan

The question is when do we apply rule *A* and when rule *B* ?

See Moed Katan 18a the top Tosfos & the Maharsha.
Either way we must be careful before speaking. Words are not cheap , they may be very costly. Ask a lawyer for his rates.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Daf Question - Kesubos 22b top line * How many Times ?

When you learn a new Torah insight how many times should you review it in order to follow the method of the great Sage Shmuel ?

See below

40 times
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Riddle for the day after

What Mitzva do we wish we would never have to do again ?

See below

Teshuva
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Riddle for the day after

What Mitzva do we wish we would never have to do again ?

See below

Teshuva
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Don't Forget

Spiritual C. P. R.

Charity
Prayer &
Repentence

Teshuva - tefila & tzedaka.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Misconception

Rambam Teshuva 7:4
Don't think that one who sinned can not become truly righteous. It is not so.
One can become beloved & cherished by Hashem as if he had never sinned ! Plus you get great Rewards for repentance.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

3 Reasons for Mitzva Eating

Eating the Seuda of the day before Yom Kippur is considered as if one fasted for two days - Rosh Hashana 9a.
Why is it so significant ?
Rabeinu Yonah S.T. 4:8 explains

- To show our joy at the arrival of the Day of Atonement.
- to show our joy for the Mitzva of Yom Kipur.
- to eat well so that we will have the energy
*to increase our prayers on y. K. &
* to focus on all of the steps of Teshuva.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 63- My needs

We thought of a new invention you may be interested in developing & marketing.
Consider a regular chair that has an added feature you can press a knob & it turns into a rocking chair.
Our Creator has built in such a feature in every human being - you can sit or stand in one posture or you can choose to sway & rock or shuckle at any speed you desire.
Your body can become its own rocking chair at your convenience.
We do this at times while we pray without even realizing it.

Furthermore , we have a built in shtender feature when we want to hold a siddur or Sefer - our arms lock at the elbows & the sefer is just right for reading. It is also adjustable with flexibility at the wrists. Baruch Hashem.
Hashem has provided us with all of our needs , includes so much.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 62 - Solid Ground

We say a daily blessing to thank Hashem for providing us with a solid earth platform to live on & work with.
There are many forms of coverings that we should include in our heartfelt thanks -
* the soft grass is a gentle cushion - ths same with imitation grass : carpets
* the highways / roadways smooth for driving
* sidewalks for comfortable walking
*fancy wood flooring
* tile floors , cement etc
* We even have bridges that are obviously over water to help us focus on thanking Hashem for providing a platform over water. Baruch Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Did You Know ?

One of the unique links to Yom Kippur is
The eighth test of Avraham Avinu his Bris Milah whivh took place on that special day.
Each year Hashem takes his merit into account to helps us atone & merit forgiveness.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Amazing Story

You don't want to miss this one in the Mishpacha ,family weekly.
Pg 52.
A secular journalist gets an assignment to attend an Arachim seminar & write an expose on the way they seem to "brainwash " people.
This top reporter gets hooked on the truths of the Torah , becomes religious & writes a book about his experience.

( If you cannot get a copy of the story , send us your address & we will try to mail you a copy. )
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Kesiva vechasima Tova

We wish you all a happy & blessed new year in every way.
Please consider sharing with us your ideas on hoW to improve oneself for the coming new year.
We also request that you consider contributing to our cause.
We are about 5000 short of our budget now , & you may be looking to distribute your surplus Maaser funds before the new year.
You can send to
Yeshiva Fund
Box 82
S. I. N. Y. 10309
Thank you
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 60 - Released from Prison

The Talmud explains that the ability to sit up , requires a daily blessing.
But what are saying ?
Who is being untied , released ?
From chains , prison ?
We should not take our ability to move & sit up for granted.
It is as if Hashem is untying us & energyzing us every time we move. Baruch Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 59- Blessing for Clothing

Why is the blessing for clothing so significant that it follows that of the eyes according to ashkenaz & that of standing upright , according to Sefarad ?
Why do we wear clothing in general , are we ashamed of the magnificent unique body Hashem has provided us with ?
The answer is that clothing are much more meaningful than the appearance they portray. They serve to remind us of who we are. We are not a body that contains a soul , rather , we are a SOUL that has a body as its container.
Your car is not you
Your clothing is not you
Your home is not you.

We need to thank Hashem for our clothing , home , a car etc , but not to lose sight of thanking Him for the ikor , our Soul.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Secret Function of Fingers

Daf 5b of Kesubos teaches the secret function that Hashem intented us to use our fingers.
??
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 58 - Another Level

When we consider the ability to open our eyes , there are limitations & challenges at times such as blind spots or color blind.
There is another level that has been linked to the plague of Darkness in the Torah , Shmos 10:23. It says that it was so dark that the Egyptians could not see each other.
A person could not see his brother. !
This can apply in many ways when we fail at times to see each others needs with sufficent concern.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 57 - Open Eyes

When a person knows who he is he is ready to open his eyes to see with inner vision. Pokeiach , means not only to open , but to be clever with an insightful mind & heart.
The Talmud , Nedarim 64b teaches that a sightless person is considered as dead. Why is that ?
Also, why do we group together a poor person , blind , leper & childless , Hashem should save us from all 4 ?
This has been explained that all 4 are limitations which restrict a persons free will causing him to lose out on Mitzva opportunities.
Thus in the morning we take stock of our good fortune to thank Hashem for the great gifts that He bestows on us daily.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Did You Know ?

* Today is the day you can begin the great study of
Mesechtas Kesubos with thousands of Jews all over , with the Daf Yomi program. ?

* There was a time in History when every first marriage would be on wednesdays , while a second marriage would take place on a thursday. See first Mishna in Kesubos.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 56 - Double Thanks

A Man says - thanks for who I am.
A Woman says - thanks for making me as He desired.
Obviously , they both need to thank Hashem for making them who they are & for the gift of a spouse.
If we were all the same we would not get the entire message. Baruch Hashem now we realize that a man has more Mitzvos including the one to study more Torah. For that he must be grateful & thank Hashem daily.
She , on the other hand , has more responsibilities to inspire her husband & her children to become great in Hashems service.

For example , Rebbe Akivas wife gets all the credit for motivating him to dedicate himself to becoming so great. And he gets for following through with his persistance to develop his greatness for 24 years in Yeshiva.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count - Haazinu / Zos Habracha

There are no specific Mitzvos , in general
- We have the fourth of the 10 Songs of history, which Moshe Rabeinu taught the last day of his life.
- We must keep the Torah ... It is like Rain.
- We must appreciate & praise Hashem
- His ways are just.
- We have freewill to choose to serve Hashem
- Remember all of Hashems kindnesses to you.
- Hashem has a system of rewards & punishments

***
Zos Habracha

* Moshe blesses all the Jews
* He praises them.
* He praises Hashem.
* he passes away on Har Nevo by a kiss of death from Hashem.
* Moshe Rabeinu was the greatest prophet in History
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count - Nitzovim / Vayelech

There are no specific Mitzvos in Nitzovim.
In general we have
- A Covenant with Hashem to keep all of the Mitzvos
- The teaching of Teshuva - when we repent Hashem will help us
- The Torah is accessible to every Jew
- The Torah is the key to all benefits in this world & in the World to come.

#####
The last two Mitvos are in Vayelech
- To gather all Jews once in 7 years after the Shmita year , on the second day of Sukkos to hear parts of the Torah at a Hakhel program.

- Every Jewish male should write his own Sefer torah.
This applies also to writing & aquiring other Seforim to own & use.
***
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 55- Secret of the Nose

Why is a nose called Chotem which is also the same root word for Chet - which refers to a sin ?
The word chut for thread is also of the same root.
The Gemara in Sukah explains that a sin begins as a small thread to tempt a person.
The essence of the word chet means to miss the goal , thus a nose is the center & the most prominent feature of the face. To identify a person , the daf Yevomos 120 a. Explains the nose must be included.
A sin is missing our purpose in life , thus it is like cutting off ones nose. Teshuva is the process of restoring & completing ones perfection.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 54 - Freedom

How much free time do we actually have to serve Hashem every day ?
We thank Hashem for not having been created as a slave in the days when that was prevalent. Every person has unique opportunities that we need to appreciate & utilize fully.
We are not avodim to people because we were granted the distinct privilege to being servants of Hashem which is true greatness.
Every morning we to remind ourselves of this greatest of goals to strive to devote our time , at least part of it , to serving Hashem with total devotion.
As we study Hashems wonders all around us & realize how Hashem is always doing everything for us , we need to reciprocate to go all out or in to serve Him !
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 53- blessing 2 -A Chosen Person

After we notice the magnificent daytime & thank Hashem for it , we start thinking about who we are & how fortunate it is to be chosen.
Now again we realize that Hashem created two types of people those who are obligated to keep the 7 Mitzvos & those who have 613.
Those who have 613 are compared to one who won a unique lotterry to receive 613 glorious mansions all over the world , expenses included. We are priviledged & entitiled to enjoy each Mitzva opportunity to enhance our lives with benefits galore.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Marriage Secret - daf 118b - Benefit of togetherness

It is better to be together , rather than being alone.
- Even if he is small as an ant.
- Even if he does not have a great job & cannot provide much.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Secret of Daf 117a -Yevomos- the Heart Mirror

How can you get someone to like you ?
By generating love for them in your heart , their heart will reciprocate. Based on Mishlei 27:19
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 52 - Counting our Blessings - 1 - Notice the Difference

Our Sages have taught us the system of saying 100 blessings daily in order to train us to learn to appreciate the Wonders of Hashem that envelope us on all sides.
Let us study the 15 morning blessings to dive into this program.
- 1 *
Day & night
If it was always daytime we would take it for granted & fail to appreciate it. Thus Hashem does us a favor by making it dark every 12 hours so that we wake up in the morning & exclaim - thanks for the gift of Daylight !
***
The same applies to summer & winter & many other such blessings in life.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 51 - The Thumb Lesson

Why does the thumb seem to be shorter than the other fingers yet it is thicker & to the side ?
When you lift something with one hand we see that the thumbs place is to oppose the other 4 fingers thus it is thicker. It also becomes longer to match the size of all of the other fingers.
One of the lessons this arrangement serves to highlight is how Hashem provides people with compensation. When they may be handlcapped in one area , Hashem provides other areas of qualities to compensate. Baruch Hashem
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 50 - Open & Close

Why did Hashem design our hands with an open & close feature , but it is not that way with our feet ?
The fingers were designed to serve open like a fork or closed as a spoon , or cupped as a cup or bowl. The feet however are for walking or standing thus they don't need such a feature.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 49 - At your Fingertips

Why did Hashem design each persons fingerprints with a unique personal pattern ?
- is it so that we should be able to identify ourselves to know who we are ?¥
- maybe so that we can check the records of criminals to determine whether or not we are on the wanted lists ?€

The basic reason for the texture of fingerprints is to enable a person to have a better grip & traction.
The profound reason is that our Sages teach
Fortunate is the person who comes to the World to Come with his Torah Study in his hands.
Pesochim 50a. Rabeinu Chananel explains the word - in his hands, that every Torah lesson has to be developed & translated into Action.
Thus Hashem gave us each unique fingers to symbolize our mission to develop our unique potential for our way of doing things with our Neshamas hallmark on it.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.

www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count - Ki Sovoi

There are 6 Mitzvos

- To recite 6 verses of Thanks when bringing the first fruits donation of Bikurim.

***
4 on how to declare , at the end of the 4th & 7th year , that we took care of our contributions.

- The declaration
- I did not eat any Maaser Sheini when in mourning
- & not while Tomay
- & not to use it for caring for a deceased

###

* Follow in Hashems ways. To be kind , generous , humble , etc.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 48 - Why 10 ?

Why did Hashem provide us with 10 fingers ?
There is a musician who instead of advertising that he is a one man band, he claims that he is a ten finger band !
One primary purpose is to remind us of our objectives in life to fulfill the 10 commandments. We know that they are divided onto two tablets , five on each , thus they correspond to our two hands of 5 fingers on each.
What a great gift. Baruch Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Chalitza

A one-hour clip of a rare chalitza ceremony, in Bnei Brak

conducted by Rav Mordechai Gross.



http://www.tsofar.com/zofar/mashtap/show.asp?id=10366

<http://www.tsofar.com/zofar/mashtap/show.asp?id=10366>

Rare Mitzva

If you want to see a clip of a rare Chalitza ,Mitzva ceremony , send us a note.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 47 -Fantastic Fingers

What is the main reason Hashem gave us such incredible fingers ?
There are usages that we may think are far fetched but our Sages teach that they may be primary functions intended by Hashem , the Creator & Designer.

The Torah , 21:14 , instructs every soldier to have a shovel among his tools & weapons ( in order to dig & cover up body wastes ).
The Talmud, Kesubos 5b , explains another level - Hashem has provided people with two toolboxes filled with a variety of equipment of different sizes & shapes. You can look at your two hands right now to see how each finger is uniquely shaped for many functions.

Thus the Talmud reveals an amazing secret - one of the primary purposes of our fingers are to serve as earplugs in order to block out inappropriate words.
We have two related levels of interpetation
1 - keep your area clean
2- keep your mind also clean.

Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count - Ki Seitzei

This Parsha has 74 Mitzvos , the most of all the Parshiyos.

6 for dealing with captives & those who are hanged -
- There are laws how to deal with a captured woman
- don't sell them
- don't put them to work
***
- A man is to be hung on a pole
- but not to be left hanging overnight.
- he should be buried on that day.

###
10 for caring for others & for oneself
* Return that which you find
* don't ignore a find
* don't turn away if someone is stuck on the road
* Help them out
- A woman may not dress like a man
- A man may not dress as a woman
-Don't take a mother bird with its young.
- Send away the mother bird
* Put up safety railings for the rooftop & windows.
* Remove anything that can cause harm or bloodshed.
***
4 for Mixing
* No mixing grapeseed with other types
* that which grows is forbidden & it needs to be burned.
* Don't work with an ox & a donkey.
* Don't wear Shatnes , wool & linen together.
###
13 Marriage related

- Mitzva to get Married
- If he had accused her unjustly , he has to keep her always as his wife.
- He may never divorce her.
- Stone to death those who are guilty.
- we don't punish those who were forced into sin.
- if someone coerced a woman he must pay the father a fine.
- He must marry her.
* a man who is physically unable to have children may only marry certain women.
* the same applies to one who was born from parents who were forbidden to be together.
# a man from Amon or Moav may never marry a Jewish woman.
# we should not offer them friendship.
# don't despise converts from Edom ...
# don't despise Egyptians.

***
9 for cleanliness & Respect

- One who is unclean may not come close to the Temple mount
- Soldiers need special outhouses
- plus every soldier should have a shovel in order to dig & cover up.

* don't send a servant out of Eretz Yisroel.
* don't oppress him.

# A couple may not be together without marriage.

* An animal that was used to pay for a sin or if it was traded for a dog may not be used for an offering.
- Don't agree to pay interest to a Jew or from a Jew.
- yes , from a non-jew.

###

9 keeping your word & your marriage.

* Don't delay paying a pledge
* keep your word

- A worker may eat of the fruit in between his working.
- but don't take some home.
- and don't take during work.
***

# one who is newly married may not leave home
# For one year he must focus on his relationship.
# If the marriage is impossible , a document of divorce is required.
# if she married someone else , the first husband may never remarry her.

****

1 - guard against removing a sign of retribution from Hashem. Listen to the message.
***

10 - dealing with others

* Don't take as security food utensils
* Don't go into ones home to request a security item.
* Don't go to sleep with something they may need at night.
* Return it every evening.

- Pay wages on time

# Don't take security from a widow.

* A relative may not testify on behalf of a relative.

- Be careful when judging a convert or an orphan.

- If you forget a bundle in your field leave it for
Converts , orphans & widows.

- don't go back to take it.

***

2 for Penalties

* there are beatings with a whip for transgressions
* 39 Malkus.

10 Caring for others

# don't muzzle an animal while it is working.
# If someone died without children , the widow should not remarry until
- we consider that the husbands brother should marry her
- or she pulls off his shoe in a chalitza procedure.
***
* we are obligated to do whatever is necessary to save a life.
* even if we must kill the potential murderer.
* Remember what terrorists have done to you.
* Destroy them & erase their memory.
* Don't forget.
***
# don't keep around false weights or measuring utensils.

***

Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.

www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 46 -Fabulous Feet

What is the main purpose Hashem gave us the gift of our legs ? Are they mainly for standing , walking or sitting ?

The Talmud , Kesubos 111b , cautions us not to sit too much because it can cause certain ailments , not to stand too much because it may harm the heart & not to walk too much to avoid harming ones eyesight. Thus we should to it to maintain a balance of the 3 activities.
This teaching sheds light on Hashems plans for how we should utilize our legs for standing & walking & not to forget the bend & fold feature for how to park our unique vehicle without having to search for a parking lot.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

The Invisible Tree -Wonders 45

What is the most important part of a tree ?
Its not what we can see - rather it is the roots which keep the tree alive & growing continuously. The roots are the most significant part of a tree as we are taught in Avos 3:22 , as a comparison to a persons actions.

There is a profound lesson here. A person may be missing out on the most important part of his mission in this world , without realizing it.
There are a great amount of Mitzvos of the mind / heart which we to perform primarily in an invisible manner , as the Chovos Halvovos teaches.
We should ask ourselves- how often do I think , I love Hashem ? What about , do I love other people ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Trust in Hashem

Which Mitzva can a person perform evrytime one looks at a bill or coin ?

Devorim 18: 13
Trust completely in Hashem , your G-d.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 44 - Sound of Tears

For Hashem has heard the voice of my tears , Tehilim 6.
Infants cry for food , for comfort , for attention , for relief. As we mature , we cry for our needs that we yearn for , for a loss Hashem should protect us from , or out of joy Baruch Hashem.
The common denominator is the word bechi , for weeping , which is of the root word becho which means in you. Tears express the innermost , essential feelings of a person. That is why Hashem listens , because it is the authentic you.

Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 43 - A Tearful Message

We see from car windshield wipers that have a cleanser resovoir that shoot out the fluid to interact with the wipers , how beneficial it is. But there are times when the regular washing may be insufficent & it may be sent to a carwash for a major cleansing.
Tears serve as a major overhaul when there is an emotional situation which requires deeper thoughts of repentance.
But why does Hashem create so many protective devices for the eyes - the eyelids have eyelashes , above which there are also eyebrows ?
Obviously , Hashem is urging us to appreciate how precious are our eyes & how we should protect them from inappropriate vision.
The entire eye is surrounded by shock absorbers which shield the eyes from blows.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count - Shoftim

There are 41 Mitzvos

10 relating to
Judges & leaders
* Appoint a Judge & officers in all towns that have 120 people.
* Follow their instructions
* Don't turn away from their words.
* Appoint a king.
* But not someone a stranger.
* He may not get too many horses.
* Don't move to Egypt , where they bred the horses.

* Not to marry many wives.
* Not to get too much silver or gold.
* To write for himself another Sefer Torah.

*****
3 for Respect

# No planting trees near the Beis Hamikdosh
# No monuments which were used for idolatry.
# An animal with a blemish may not be used as an offering.
###
6 for Kohanim

- No share of loot from wars.
- No inheritance of land , besides the 48 cities for them.
- Give them 3 portions of meat
- Give him Teruma of grain , wine & oil.
- Give him of your first wool shearings.
- He should serve Hashem at the Beis Hamigdosh.

****

10 types of avoiding the false & following true Prophets
* No using methods for trying to predict the future.
* No Witchcraft
* No snake charming.
* No consulting dead bones sorcery
* or Yidoni , bird bones.
* or seeking to connect with the dead.

** Listen to the true Prophets.
# It is forbidden to prophesy falsely.
* or to speak in the of other idol ,gods.
# Don't fear a false prophet , put him to death.

****
5 of Peoples rights
- Set aside 3 cities of refuge to rehabilitate one who killed someone by accident.
- Don't have pity on someone who deserves a death penalty.
- Don't shift the fence of someones property.
- A single witness cannot incriminate a person.
- 2 witnesses who were caught lying are punished , measure for measure , as they were intending to do to others.

***
7 for War situations
* Have no fear of the enemy , trust in Hashem.
* A special Kohen should encourage the people.
* Always strive for Peace first.
* Don't allow any of the terrorists to remain alive.
* Don't destroy trees when going to attack.
* if a dead person is found between two cities , a calf is brought & killed ...
* The area where the Mitzva is done is to be left unplanted as a memorial.
10
3
6
10
5
7
____

41.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.

www.GemsofTorah.com

W. 42 - 2 Incredible Cameras

Click , click ?
No. You don't even hear a click as your eyes keep on taking instant color pictures.
How often do the lenses have to be cleaned ?
Baruch Hashem , thank Him for designing an automatic cleansing system which dissolves all dust & spreads an antiseptic fluid to keep the eyes spotless & germless. It happens about every 5 seconds & we don't even notice it.
Do we need to apply any wipers ?
Believe it or not , Hashem has created an eyelid cover with an automatic blinking / cleansing system. The eyeshield wipers disappear on top when not in use , but they can be lowered intentionally at any time to shield the eyes from improper harmful sights or they close for a blink by Hashems built in programming.
But we have a homework question for you - what is the signifigance of tears & why are they linked to the eyes ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Wonders 41 - Drops of Blessing

Why does Hashem cause the rain to fly down to us in small , gentle drops ?
What a gift of refreshing sustenance granted with loving care for such an abundance of purposes.
- All types of drinks ,
- Clean Clothes
- Baths & showers
- to cook food
- sprinkle the lawns
- Wash our hands & faces

Hashem says , why should I trouble you to go to the ocean , river or lake , I will deliver these precious drops to your house. Free Home delivery service. Baruch Hashem !
Rain has been called Liquid Sunshine. It is about equal in its incredible value & it may be easier for it to wake us up to the reality that Hashem is providing us with , as it taps us gently in the face. Yes , we need to thank Hashem for this most magnificent gift.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

E-Z Pass for the Soul

Why does E-Z pass work & how can we use it to develop our spiritual level ?
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Smoke Alarm- Wonders 40

Have you thanked Hashem lately for the unique smoke alarm system He has attached to your body ?
First of all why did He decide to position it right in the center of your face ?
One reason , Rav Miller explained is so that it can hold your glasses in place in case you may use them.
But it serves much more than that. It is a most amazing machine that can breathe & keep us alive as a divers snorkel. It can process & identify millions of molecules which constantly fly through the air.
Besides the early warning smells for protection , it provides pleasure , such as to inform you in advance of the delicious supper your wife has waiting for you.
It stands gaurd as a sentry over your mouth , as a security gaurd with a sniffing dog to detect spoilage of that which may cause harm.
Your small nose has about 10 million super advanced computers of receptor cells that run all types of programs. That is nothing to sneeze at. And if you do hear someone sneeze , once in a while , thank Hashem for the wonderful relief cleansing system of a sneeze. Baruch Hashem.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.

www.GemsofTorah.com

Prayer Posture - W. 39

We have guidelines in Shulchan Oruch Siman 95 as to how to utilize all of our body parts to participate in prayer to Hashem.
To pray the Shmone Esrei ,
* Keep your two feet close together as one to resemble an Angel.
* Bend your head slightly downward in a humble manner.
* your eyes also focus downward

* your hands folded over your heart
* your heart / mind thinking heavenly thoughts.

Mishna Berura adds that we sway with the whole body also in fulfillment of - All my bones say , who is like You !
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Tree Links - Wonders 38

What is the connection between
Eitz - a tree
Eitzem - a bone
& Eitza - advice ???

1 - is a display stand , rack , for leaves , fruit , wood to serve as a frame for providing us with many useful materials.

2 - Bones are similar in that they grow , maintain , support & protect the body. They keep the body in shape to live & accomplish.

3 - Advice serves as a spiritual support system to help us think straight to guide & sustain us to grow in all areas of life.

Your creations are many , Hashem , they are all made with profound wisdom ... Tehillim 104 :24
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.
www.GemsofTorah.com

Mitzva Count - Parshas Reay

This Sedra has the third most Mitzvos in one Parsha.
* 6 dealing with Holy & the opposite
- Destroy places of idol worship where we own the area.
- Don't destroy that which is sacred to Hashem.
- Bring offerings to the Holy Temple
- Don't burn a sacrifice anywhere else.
- An Olah can only be brought there.
- If an offering animal became blemished it is to be redeemed.
###

8 laws of eating restrictions

* One may not eat out of Yerushalayim -
Maaser Sheini of grain
Of wine
Of oil.
A kohen may not eat of a firstborn animal
Nor the meat of certain offerings outside of the Temple courtyard
Nor of any olah offering
Nor of a voluntary offering until the blood applications.
- A kohen may not eat Bikurim until it is placed in the Beis Hamikdosh.
*****
13 laws of Priorities
- Always help the Levites & those who are devoted to always study Torah
- Never eat meat from a live animal
- Not until the animal was slaughtered in the Kosher manner
- An offering is only permitted in Hashems chosen place.
- Never add to a Mitzva
- Nor subtract
- never listen to a false prophet
- Don't like one who persaudes people to sin
* don't listen to his pleas for mercy
* don't save him from danger
* don't try to argue on his behalf.
* don't cover up if you have something negative to say.
* we must destroy such wicked people.
#####
10 more to investigate the Truth & avoid the negative
- Beis Din must check witnesses carefully.
- If an entire city sinned , we destroy it all by fire.
- Never to be rebuilt.
- Don't use anything from there.
- don't cut your skin as idol worshippers did.
- nor to tear your hair as they did.
- Do not eat anything called an abomination.
- Only eat birds that are Kosher.
- Do not eat flying insects.
- Do not eat Nevela , if it died.

*****
10 laws of Giving

* Give a Tenth , to eat in Yerusholayim.
* Every third year give a tenth to the poor.
* Every Shmita release debts that are owed to you
* Don't ask for payment.
* Do collect from non - jews.
* Don't close your heart & hand from helping the poor.
* Open your hand to give.
* Don't stop giving loans before Shmita.
* Don't send a jewish servant away empty.
* Give him tips & bonuses.
####
8 more laws of Timing
- Do not work with a firstborn animal which is holy.
- Do not shear wool off of a holy animal.
* No eating Chometz Erev Pesach in the afternoon
* No leaving over from the meat of a Korban Chagiga
* No bringing a korban Pesach in a private place
* Rejoice on the Holidays.
* 3 times a year come before Hashem at the Beis Hamigdosh.
* Don't come empty handed - bring a Korban.
***
We have 55 Mitzvos in Reay.
Now may be a good time for a gem of Torah study.

www.GemsofTorah.com