Step 20 - get along Better

How can we get along better with so & so ( you know who ) ?

You need to focus on the good of that person. Look for the good they have done & keep on doing. There is something that is magnificent about them ! Find it , acknowledge it & train yourself to appreciate it.
You can turn a relationship around - it takes about 10 days of focussing on what you appreciate about that person.
All this is included in the Mishna who is honorable ? One who honors others ! Avos 4:1.
Who is in charge ? Hashem put you in power of honoring & respecting others & He will cause them to respond.
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